As history has it, change is something that is constant in
every situation. Sometimes the change is good and sometimes bad. Sometimes, it
might be for the good and sometimes for the bad. No matter how good or bad
change is, the one thing that we can be sure of amongst all this is that,
change is something that is one of the biggest contributions that our life gets
in order to shape up our future in a more concrete way. There have been so many
changes in one person’s life that it is next to impossible to keep a track on
every change. But, there has to be certain good changes that have affected us
in such a way that we can’t help but remember it and be thankful to it
throughout our lives.
Men and women, both, go through changes in their lives in
all stages. Women are one part of the society, who belongs to everybody. In one
stage of their life, they are daughters. In the next stage, she is a sister.
Following it, she is a wife. And then finally, she is a mother. In the circle
of all these stages, she manages to be herself, be a woman. Today, being a
woman, I would like to talk about the most significant change in a woman’s
life. The day they get married. After years of living in their father’s home,
uncontrolled, like a free bird, there comes a time when they have to leave all that and go to a
completely unknown house. Live with them; be theirs, as their daughter in law.
This change brings with itself loads of other changes in the life of every
woman.
The way they live, changes. Their mornings change, so does their
nights. A girl who is used to live on her own now has to live on terms. But
then, the change is for the better. Today, the person they are is a reflection
of the kind of family they belong to keeping a side of their own house too. I
remember, my best friend was a very tomboyish before her marriage. She was one
girl who always used to run around, do random things without even caring about
what others might think. She was sad, and lonely, I knew because I used to be
her confidante. I still remember the day she got married, crying herself out
and not letting me go. But today, when I see her with her husband and her 2
year old naughty kid, I know. She is one happy woman in her life. She had
everything that she always wanted to. Her life has changed a lot she has become
more responsible and more down to earth.
There was line which I wrote long back and the quote I made,
still rings in my ears very often – “The girl who sits on the wedding seat, is
entirely different from the woman who emerges from it…!” Changes, give
way to a new confidence in everyone’s life that we never knew were there.
Whether it is good or bad, the only thing that is in our hands is to accept the
change and embrace it, for we should know that it will help us form our future
in one strong way.
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